I’m up early to get a run in (Downtown Y treadmill) and then going to visit a friend in Spring Hill. Marty is the best handyman in the Mid-State.
Want a room painted? Marty’s your guy.
Need a wall built and your closest redesigned? Marty’s the man.
Screen door put on? Marty has you covered.
Always on time. Always with a pep in his step. I would find myself hanging around just to shoot the breeze with him. You know that person that loiters around your desk, a “chatty Kathy”, and you just want to get your work done? Yeah, I’m probably “that guy” to Marty.
Marty can do it all. On Marty’s “to do” list the next few months? Beating cancer.
If the sign that hangs by my desk, “Attitude is Everything” is true, then I like Marty’s chances.
To him, it’s just one more thing to fix.
In the wake of this recent news about Marty, I thought I would republish a blog entry from December 10, 2009:
“The Bitch is Back.”
-Elton John 1974
I’ve always approached this blog as an extension of my life. Like me, it can be serious and silly. Part soapbox, part punch line. It’s a healthy daily exercise trying to connect with family, friends and viewers on compatible subjects. Unlike the law of physics, my action is often trumped by your reaction. I’m hoping this is one of those entries.

Jeff and me at USC-Notre Dame game in October. We are smiling because the Irish hadn't fallen behind by 20 yet.
Cancer is quite frankly, a bitch that’s now messed with two members of my immediate family. Thankfully the big “C” is sometimes the little “c” because of the advances in treatment. Yesterday I learned my younger brother has to beat the little “c”, again.
When my 77-year old father beat thyroid cancer earlier this year, it was an educational process. If you’ve ever dealt with “C” or “c”, you come to understand the difference. When my father revealed the diagnosis, the trite emotional response, “Not in our family! That couldn’t happen to our family!” made the circles. All family members kept their composure and Mom was incredible through it all but I’m sure everyone had their moment(s) when they “freaked out”.
My father’s saga led my brother and me to get checked out. My brother’s tests came back with some masses and nodules in his thyroid. Surgery took place earlier this month followed by yesterday’s follow-up appointment. That’s when his doctors decided to go off script and told him they found cancer in the left side of his thyroid. Another surgery in six weeks. Then maybe some radiation treatments. My brother has a great attitude toward it all calling the whole ordeal a “big hassle.” Perhaps I’m naive but a few decades ago it would have been called a whole lot worse.
So there. That’s my latest family drama. On life’s Richter scale, we haven’t made too many dishes fall off the shelf but it’s still OUR dishes, ya know? We’ve been very lucky. Fortunately, my father and mother once again (do they ever take a day off from parenting and do something really devilish?!) have offered a blueprint in how to deal with such things.
To show what a great attitude Jeff has toward the next few months, he walked me through his recovery timeline punctuating the fact that he’ll be all healed by Lynley’s and my wedding. In a intimate conversation where it could/should have been heavy with “why me’s?”, he actually was thinking about other family members. How incredible an attitude is that? Silly good.
So cancer’s a bitch. The Bitch is Back.
This Bitch doesn’t stand a chance.